Dirty Talk: Diary of a Phone Sex Mistress: Diary of a Phone Sex Mistress

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My friends are so mad that they do not know how I have all the high quality ebook which they do not! I stumbled upon Playster 2 months ago. I've upgraded to a premium membership already. The platform now carries audiobooks from: HarperCollins US titles are already in the library. Just click on the download, read now or start a free trial buttons and create an account. Dirty Talk is more than just a look at the world of phone sex. This unique, nonjudg-mental, tell-all book is part autobiography, part industry expos?.

Anthony digs deep beneath the surface of our desires and reveals the truth about the phone sex actresses who leave male callers physically spent and sexually satisfied. During his years as a phone sex actor, Anthony kept a detailed diary of his conversations and encounters in this alternate world of sexual expression. Reprinted here are many of those titillating conversations featuring every possible scenario from straight sex, transsexual and gay encounters to kinky scenes, fetishes, and the downright bizarre!

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Therefore, you have go-to stories for domination, teacher- college student fantasy, cougar fantasy, cross-dressing, etc. That way if you get 10 calls for a teacher- college student fantasy, you just use the same role play. For example, if you commit to being on the phones from pm, then callers who like you will know that they can always catch you then.

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When I had a set schedule, it was easier for people to reach you. Now, because I am working doing other projects, I only jump on the phones whenever I can. Clients love reliability, so if you can make a set schedule, you will do better. Still no luck with compaines in the UK. Its crazy how you would not think many people would want to do it but so many do. Will keep trying though. Thanks for all the info. I am considering being a P.

I have a question I hope you could help me with. I have my own phone in my bedroom, but it has the same phone number as the family phone in the living room. Do you know how I could get my own number for my private bedroom phone to use for phone sex? Do I have to go through the phone company they charge a monthly fee or would the phone sex company provide me with my own number that they would put on the phone for me?

English girls do very well with that. You can do this by getting a VOIP phone service with a US phone number done most easily if you have a friend or family member in the US to get it for you. You will not be able to keep it a secret from your family. I read stories on literotica.

Bear in mind I specialize in domination and fetishes, which requires a lot more specialized knowledge. I will not reply to any questions about who I work for — they only hire those with experience and a college degree. Consider joining a forum like http: You can also click on the banners over at http: I know this comment may be a little late, but Thema thank you so much for answering these so many questions…I have a few myself. Hopefully soon I will be moving into an apartment with a friend who knows about my choice and is supportive.

And possibly get my own apartment in a couple of months? Which company would be best to work for? Adriane, any company on this list http: Keep in mind that calls are not going to be back to back. Therefore, even if you worked for 15 hours straight, you still could only get 5-minute call every 15 minutes or 4 an hour. As Jane wrote in post As you can see, Jane has made this into her own business, which includes more than just calls. For me, it pays some expenses as a side hustle; however, teaching college pays more.

If you are going to work like Jane, sure you could make enough to support yourself. Otherwise, I would suggest looking at getting other sources of income, too. Layla, try contacting some reputable companies here http: Thema I want to thank you for this blog. Now I do… I have done several call center jobs on other things and have always been told I have a very Sexy voice along with the fact that I have a southern accent when I choose to. You can always try it. Just brace yourself for any type of call. Thank you for the excellent info. Can I ask you a few questions?

Is this possible without a US landline? Also if you set up as an IPSO what happens when you want to take a break? Do you lose your client base? Hi and thanks T. Thema Martin and J. Money for bringing this topic to the forefront! One CC payment later and you are on the phone with the girl of your dreams feeling validated and human again.

I took a break when I got married and had a munchkin. Now a divorced single parent with no family except the small person about me You have to eat! The hospital knows I have you! I value my time more than profit. I make more money in a spa, but my kid would be at a sitter all day, what fun is that. By no means am I saying that daycare is bad or knocking the working parent. Ok so the real deal. This is not mindless working at Wal-Mart people.

You have to come prepared, do your homework. If you can put in the groundwork tho, that is where the money is at — if you can hang on long enough for it to roll in. If you need money immediately or this is a side hustle, or even to supplement your budding IPSO biz; a lower paying dispatch center is the quickest way to go. They talk about the different kinds of those centers in depth at http: I also keep the job separate from my personal life and can count on one hand how many people know what I really do. What is with the landline issue people? This is a job like anywhere else.

Does that phone ever drop a call or go into a tunnel or need to be charged? Spend the 20 bucks a month on the landline and deduct it on your taxes jeez. Sherazade, try contacting some reputable companies at http: I am not sure if any of those companies hire overseas. I would imagine that an IPSO would alert her client base that she is going on vacation. However, if you are talking about taking a break for months, I would imagine that some clients would go elsewhere.

I was a phone sex operator for two years. I did the midnight-7AM shift. The Money was pretty good. Thanks for the info and links! I would totally be down for trying this. I stay at home with my daughter and hate living tightly every month. I recently saw a story regarding this on Good Morning America. The increase of stay at home moms and other types of women willing to do this as their occupation was fascinating.

The only hang up I have is telling the hubby, hey guess what. I think I want to be a PSO, phone actress, sex goddess. Any advice on getting the partners on board with this concept? Lynette, you know your husband more than I do. Does he have a positive, health view of it? If so, it will be easy to bring him onboard. Every man is different. Some men are turned on by their wives being a PSO, just like some men are turned on by their women being strippers. Also, stress the fact that there are safety measures in place to keep the men from knowing who you are.

Thanks for sharing this! People of all genders can make a ton of money doing this! Just go for it! This was a tremendously interesting read. There are so many questions I have about this. All looks safe, fantastic and as well an incredible opportunity. I will apriciate your advise. I look forward for your responce. How do I get started? Thanks again so much for all answering all the questions on this thread. All in all, I believe that I have an excellent attitude towards sex and am very interested in getting started.

I have no issues whatsoever with having to get a land line and, live alone. Main question 1 I know you mentioned that there are some companies that only hire people with college degrees… could you please point me in that direction? Again, so grateful for your help! Kittie, I believe you are referring to post by Jane regarding college and mp3.

Hopefully Jane will see your posting and respond. Alex, go to http: I cannot say whether or not they hire workers in PR. I am married with kids and a professional. Financially, we have been struggling! I will be reading the comments more thoroughly. I just had some questions about taxes and how to privately pay them. I love my husband but how would I pay taxes on a profession like this without my husband knowing! I keep searching the web but nothing is very clear!

You are the best I have found! Shawnee, as far as I am concerned, honesty is the best policy. There are plenty of women with husbands, fiancees, and boyfriends who do this kind of work. Most of these positions are as contract work, so they take out no taxes. I am not sure how you would be able to hide your income and your home phone line usage from your husband. In my mind, its not much different from cyber sex chat room sex , which I have done with male acquaintances and total strangers. Also not much different from phone sex which again I have done with lovers and once, with a guy who was a wrong number!

He ended up calling me regularly for months, and I dont think I ever knew his name. Anyway, like most adults, I have a healthy view of sex and am not unacquainted with porno or reading erotica. My only reservation is lack of experience, I would hate to panic when I get a caller asking for something that I have no experience in. Is there any kind of training or something? What is your advice for the total novice looking to start in the business? I see you have listed reputable companies but do they give you any sort of training or just throw you to the wolves.

JoJo, I am not sure if all of the companies listed offer training. The only training I had was really about how to work the system for taking calls. I was pretty much thrown to the wolves. The biggest advantage of being independent is you dictate to clients what services you offer. With a lot of the phone companies, you never know what the person on the other end wants. In my profile at phone companies, I list my specialties, but I still get calls from any and everyone.

Unfortunately for a new person, the only way to learn is to just get in there and take calls. I was looking a way to get in contact with them from the website but I havent have the chance. Looks like I have to pay before anything else. If any company wants you to pay them, then walk away.

Which companies told you to pay upfront? This way, I can note it for future reference. I was a pro Dom for years and fantasy is a great place to spend sometime unwinding. I would really prefer the professional crowd of older gentlemen as I am very empathetic and articulate,philosophical playful and sexual also! As a teen , before I was married and webcams were non-existent chat or mic only I would talk to many, many men in for many many evenings simply because I found their fetishes and characters so fascinating , psychologically speaking. I quit after I got engaged and married, but 10 years later I think my talent for conversation just might save me….

Are there any higher end PSO companies that cater to this crowd?

Dirty Talk: Diary of a Phone Sex Mistress

I am half-european and half asian with an accent and well traveled. OMG…i just read all these comments. YOU all have us wrapped around your finger! Sinthia, the big PSO companies cater to all. However, you may luck up and find a boutique PSO company that caters just to the professional crowd.

Good luck with that one! I am calling niteflirt again tonight to talk to this one girl. Serious inquirys only please. Im horny for a male fit guy call me! I am a 49 year old divorced woman and this is how I pay my bills and have money for fun stuff. My family knows what I do, and my daughter actually works for the same company as I do so we sometimes compare callers and get a good laugh together. She is a college student and single mother and she has fun with it too. I never ask for last names or financial info or anything like that its also frowned upon by the co.

I work for and as I said, I dont have to talk about things I find distasteful.

What can I do to prevent this in the future?

Also am NOT allowed to discuss minors, blood related family fun or bestiality. I am currently waiting for the phone company to come and set up a land line. Is it better to WAIT to apply through these websites until I have that phone in place or can I go ahead and start applying online?

What kinds of questions should I ask when in the process of getting hired? My phone plan is only going to cover US calls — so is there anything you suggest for a company solely in the US? Which companies would you recommend to work for? Jill, I am so glad that you found the article to be very informative. I believe in helping others to succeed because there is enough success and money for everyone. You have 2 choices. If you are going to get a landline on a definite day, then you could go ahead and apply.

There is no shortage of women with landlines who are ready to go. Usually, the application will say that you must have a landline, so companies are looking for you to be ready to go, as opposed to waiting to get the required equipment, especially since so many women are applying for these jobs. Keep in mind, too, that the company will run a check on your phone to make sure that the landline is up and running. Once you apply, it could take a month to hear something or they could call you the next day.

The company will tell you what you cannot have on your phone, i. I just receive money via a regular checking account. Some companies still send out a paper check. As long as you deal with a reputable company, you should have no problem. You want to ask questions regarding the work schedule and time requirements.

For instance, some companies have a set schedule, which may require you to work weekends. Most companies need the most help from Midnight to 6am, and they may pay extra during those times. You also want to know how many calls or minutes are you supposed to do. For instance, a company way say that you must take 6 calls an hour or you must talk at least 30 minutes during that hour, or whatever. Thema So I came across your post browsing for work at home options. I used to be a camgirl but I quit doing that because I found out Im pregnant and the guys on the site I worked for are a bunch of cheapasses trying to get everything for free you can thank the girls who break rules and give away too much in public chat.

I came across becoming a PSO and im thinking about giving it a shot. What companies do you recommend getting started on? I would appreciate it. I am so glad I ran across this site and saw your long-running conversations with people. So my questions might be redundant. Kim, look up top at the article because I describe income. I just know that people who work for themselves make the most. I just want to say as a man i am addicted to calling these lines.

Thanks so much for writing this hilarious review! Glad to hear you had a giggle, reading this made me smile lots: There are so many new sites and opportunities popping up and you better believe they want to make money so they are marketing like crazy. Thanks for continuing to keep the comments open on this — clearly people are still searching for information and considering the option! Someone on this board asked about a companies for college-educated women. I came across this ad, but please note that I know nothing about this company:. Earn top dollar working from home as a phone Dominatrix.

Established in , our woman-owned, elite phone-domination service seeks college-educated Scheherazades, well-versed in BDSM. Visit our website to get a sense of our aesthetic. To apply, leave an alluring message at You must be a college-educated U. I love this topic. When i was saying every guy i talked to told me i had a nice sexy voice.

I have a question……. Keylen, some companies do direct deposit, while others send a paper check. Usually you are responsible for paying your own taxes since you are usually a contract employee. Niecy, each company varies but most require a landline with no features such as call waiting, unless you work for yourself not for a company as an Independent PSO. With the latter, you can use a cell.

I have viewed just about evey comment posted starting way back in of Oct.. This has really been helpful to me Thank You. Now I just gotta find the right company to become a PSO with. What race is in high demand? Tarsha, if you are talking about ethnicity, it is hard to say. There are enough men who are going to want a woman of any race.

Keep in mind that numbers are going to reflect society. Therefore, the majority of PSOs are going to be white. So, there is always going to be a need for ethnic women. Thanks for the article. This is so informative. I, like many others, have been trying to look for creative side venues for income. I just have a quick question.

When calls are forwarded to your phone line, does it show up on caller ID as being a phone call from the company? I have a landline but I do get regular calls throughout the day. A year ago, me and my fiance talked about me being a phone sex operator. I was pretty excited at first and was pumped for a phone interview. And what type of advice can you give to me since I have been shy but I am interested in doing after working at a call center for the past 8 months, I have gotten more confidence talking to strangers.

And also what company would you give preference to? Thank you for posting this article. I too am a college professor, teaching one class this semester, 3 in the spring. I was a 6 figure corporate sales exec until when my company merged with another and they use that as excuse to cut the top 20 sales people. I have been trying to find something from home to supplement my university job.

Until now I was reallyskepital about this job opportunity. But, I think I will give a try and see what happens. I am imaginative if nothing else…. Taylor, go to http: I suggest working for a company that has no set schedule but just a minimum hours rule. For example, one company may state that you make your own hours, but you have to work at least 10 hours a weekly. I am all about trying new things. So I always tell people to just try it. The hardest part is that first call and first day. After that, it gets easier and easier because you become more aware of what men are looking for.

I have worked for a few companies but then stumbled on http: You might not get rich from it but its dead easy to get signed up and earning and I have been doing it for about 4 months now for some extra cash on the side. Being able to answer calls when sat in traffic in my car or on my lunch from my regular job is a big plus for me! I was watching this movie the other night which really inspired me to check into this. I like this article help a lot. I think I want to work for and start my own business. I would like to be back into the phone sex chat busniess again, was on anothere site and have 2 yrs exp.

I am 57 female, five three, lbs… blue eyes, long brown hair. Love to wear corsets, thigh highs and six inch heels… i was into what ever my caller wanted and have had calls for up to and over minutes on an average… I am part native american. Meanna, most companies that require a landline require it to be corded with no features on it i. The logic is the cordless phone could die or have less of a clear reception. Wow, I just finished reading all of this forum. It sounds like the fastest way to get started is with an agency and the way to make the most money is as an independent, so it would make sense if I need an income quickly but want to maximize my earning potential, to start with an agency while building and promoting an indie business?

Do the PSO companies generally allow this, or do they have non-competition clauses in their contracts? Is it considered ethical if a clientele you have built at an agency follows you to your independent business?

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I am a professional in a small town and I do not want anyone to know that I am doing this. I would think the most vulnerable place, the one where our real name meets our income source, is our bank account. I am very encouraged by this site and very appreciative. I had a husband in prison so I know my phone sex, and had a grand time with instant message sex when it was a new thing. Everyone tells me I have a sexy voice. The office in town is soundproof and my office-mate is likely to join in because frankly, this pays better than most insurances do for psychotherapy.

Lynn, I have never had a company to mandate a non-compete clause, especially since you are a contract worker. As far as taking clientele, I am not sure how you would do that.

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Every company I worked for did not allow you to give them your indie business information, so I am not sure how they would be able to follow you. Also, you cannot ask clients for personal information. For instance, if your indie business is Lynn. If agencies allowed them to leave, they would make no money because PSOs would just work at an agency just to get clients and then leave.

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As far as protecting privacy, you just provide a toll free number to clients. If you are concerned about people finding out what you do regarding employment, and financial and credit applications, you may want to rethink this profession. There are sites out there where you can buy fake pictures to use. Keep in mind that even though you are selling a fantasy, it has been my experience that men want reality. The pictures I use are really of me wearing a masquerade mask and sunglasses.

Some men call for women over 40, ethnic women, big women, pregnant women, redheads, transgenders, etc. Trust me, out of 3 billion men, you will find enough who like you for what you really look like. Jennifer, go to http: Hello Thank you for all this great information. Can I work from an international company? I work on a cam site, but want to make more money. Other girls give out their cell phone number for a certain amount of money each week.

My question is how do they do it? Do they get a disposable cell phone with a new number each week? Or do they change their number each week? I am most interested in a dispatch position. You know, just to get my feet wet first. Is there any other special equipment besides land line phone with no extras that I would need?

And is there a high demand for PSO dispatching from home? I think I would like to try this first before jumping into PSO. Same companies to apply as stated in above comments? If so, go to http: You just need a landline and a good headset is desirable for long calls. Donna, here is a link to a Phone Sex Dispatcher position http: This is very interesting.

Jazzy, please note that some companies require you to have a landline BEFORE you are hired because they run a check to make sure that the landline is valid. Since you have to provide a SSN, I am sure some kind of background check is done, but I am not sure what exactly is checked. They could be checking for fraud. The only way you will know if you are eligible is if you apply to companies.

I am a 30 year old single mom and need a job I have always been told I have a phone sex type of voice this just seems like the best job for me at this time. Thanks for bringing light to a business that i have worked years in … we seem to be in the shadow alot.. I would like to speak….

My article discusses a Have Taboos company, which means there are topics PSOs are NOT allowed to discuss with clients such as pedophilia, bestiality, murder, and incest. Rape is allowed just depending on how the role play is handled. However, there are companies that have No Taboos, which means anything goes or anything goes except anything that would be illegal in real life.

So when you are deciding which company to work for, you want to know if taboos are allowed or not. It makes a difference with the type of callers who will call you. For example, I take calls that ARE taboo. Income — Regarding income, on average, you will receive more if you work for a No Taboo anything goes company or a company that specializes in Fetishes men who like to wear diapers, men who love feet, etc.

However, at the No Taboos or Fetish company, you may make 50 cents to a dollar a minute. This article was great — and I just read every comment! Thank you for all the very helpful and detailed info. I have always been told I have a sexy voice, and I am pretty ggg and open-minded when it comes to sex. I have no qualms about talking dirty — I love talking dirty in real life with my actual lovers, and have gotten guys off on the phone before. After being told again and again that I would make a great domme, I downloaded a bunch of really good e-books on the subject of how to dominate men, and it is fascinating!

I was thinking of doing it to work as a call center operator, like for customer service, but being a PSO surely pays more. So, I am thinking of doing phone sex a couple of hours at night after I finish my retail job, maybe three or four nights a week. I hope a company out there can accommodate that kind of schedule. I live in an apartment with some noisy neighbors but if I did this, I would invest in good noise-cancelling headset specific brand recommendations welcome!

I think I would sell myself as a domme after reading up on it some more , a cougar looking for her cub, and a bbw. Those are all aspects of me that I would easily be able to role-play. Thanks again for your comprehensive and informative article and subsequent comments! Is that good logic? I work my retail job five days a week, and want to enjoy my life, too, so I want something that brings in a moderate extra income for as little investment as possible.

Deanna, your key is going to be finding the company that pays a high rate per minute. What you may have to do is start at any company regardless of pay in order to gain experience and then move on to a high paying company. However, even if you quit a company on good terms, they still may NOT want to re-hire you if you want to come back later. Since you work, I suggest finding a company that has flexible hours. For instance, some companies require that you maintain a set shift.

That might not work for you. I prefer companies that allow you to jump on line at will. However, they still might have a minimum hours weekly requirement of 10 or 20 hours but not a set schedule. How many girls a company already has is another important factor because if they have too many girls and not enough clients, you will get fewer calls, which means it would be harder to reach your financial goal. However, you might have to be open to taking calls for 4 hours just to get 1 hour of clients talking to you.

If a caller wants a transgender man, you have to play that role, too, even though that might not be you. You might have to role-play as a 19 year old even though you are

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